Her Mother

What blessing would you offer to Stefan and Inga?

"May the Lord’s radiance and healing shine upon you and grant you peace."

What has made you most proud of Inga?

"The way in which she continues to seek a closer relationship with the Lord. It’s not always smooth going, but she’s growing."

What were your first impressions of Stefan?

"Stefan appeared friendly and personable. He showed interest in learning more about Inga’s family. He indicated that Inga was someone special to him."

How would you describe Inga's life so far, in one word?

"Full of ups and downs, lots of surprises. One word? Hectic "

Family farm, Ngqwara, Eastern Cape, circa 1979. Back row, left to right: utatomkhulu (Inga's grandfather), Neliswa (Inga's older sister), Inga, Lulama (Inga's older sister), umakhulu (Inga's grandmother), Manelisi (Inga's father). Front row: second from left, Quintin (Inga's elder brother); fourth from left, Buyiswa (Inga's elder sister); seventh from left, Tozi (Inga's elder sister).

Who are the Ndibongos?

Inga is the last-born daughter of Manelisi HF Ndibongo, the last-born son of the Rev. WPT Ndibongo, minister/ scholar/ missionary/ moderator of the Uniting Reformed Presbyterian Church, and Lucy Nonika MaDuna, teacher/ women’s ministry/ mother. The Rev. WPT chose the surname of Ndibongo during his education at Lovedale College and Fort Hare University (BA Theology, 1929). He was the first-born son of Tenge, wealthy in land and livestock, who settled in Ngqwara. Tenge was the 3rd son of the 2nd wife of Ndibongo, whose father was Maphantsana, the son of Chola. Family history traces to Mpinga (our clan is AmaMpinga), the son of King Ntose, the son of King Malangana, the son of King Njanya II, the son of King Skhomo, the son of King Ndunu, the son of King Mpondomise, the establisher of the AmaMpondomise nation. And so goes the history further back...

Inga’s father Manelisi, as a young man dedicated his life to the liberation of the peoples of Southern Africa. In 1960 he joined the Pan African Congress (PAC) after hearing Professor Robert Sobukwe’s call to peaceful protest against the apartheid government’s passbooks required for all Black South Africans. On March 30, 1960, he was arrested for organising (with 5 others) the March on Cape Town, imprisoned and escaped in 1961 to political exile in Africa and beyond.

In 1965 MHFN met Inga’s mother VH Lundstrom studying at Michigan State University, USA. The rest is another story of life in exile, return to South Africa/ The Transkei, exile again and final return to the new South Africa of 1991...

Rank your children by...

ABILITY TO HOLD THEIR ALCOHOL

Quintin - abstains

Svieta and Tozi - moderate

Lulama, Neliswa, Buyiswa & Inga - relish their daily quota +

Ntaba - get a grip, buddy!

ABILITY TO COOK

Neliswa - gourmet *****++

Tozi - as needed for family

Svieta - organises well

Lulama - delicious when time permits

Inga - improving with zest

Quintin - does his own thing

Buyiswa - great braai

Ntaba - haven’t tasted yet

(From left to right, by our ages): Quintin, Svieta, Tozi, Lulama, Neliswa, Buyiswa, Inga, Ntaba

Funniest - Ntaba

Craziest auntie - Buyiswa

Unusual perspectives - Inga

Energetic multitasking - Tozi

Diligently persevering - Svieta

Hard-working, conscientious - Quintin

Multifaceted diamond - Neliswa

Brilliant researcher/ lecturer/ mentor - Lulama

Who would Inga say is your favorite child?

"I think Inga would say it’s Quintin (like her siblings all claim!) "